JUST A STORY OF CHILD ABUSE

STORY ABOUT CHILD ABUSE?????.............

"I knew she was in for trouble when she gave him that look, and when he grabbed her throat, I was scared, but I didn't think he would actually hurt her.

"My sister and I had recently moved into our new family - a widower step-father and his 7 children. She was a beautiful young woman with friends and boys chasing her all around our small town, and I was her geek little brother, excelling in all things unpopular and uncool. I had managed to avoid the fists which flew at my step-brothers for months by retreating into my own head, laying low, and hiding, no, erasing all emotion. I figured she was out of danger since she was a girl - I mean, no evil bastard would beat up a girl!

"I had quickly trained myself not to react when I saw him beating my 2nd and 4th grade brothers, putting heads through plaster walls, choking them until they stopped resisting, threatening their lives into submission. Reacting urged it on. 'I'll give you something to cry about.' 'Wipe that look off your face, or I'll wipe it for you.'

"I remember the feeling I experienced when I saw him put his fist to her face and watched the blood pour out of her nose and lips - my beautiful sister. How would she live with such fear and unhappiness? How would she face school, friends, life? I knew the meaninglessness of life - I wanted to die in the act of torturing and killing him. I split in two and lost myself entirely. The next thing I remember was staring up at an enormous booted leg which led from my neck to his head and the ceiling beyond. I heard him say, 'You will NOT call that number. They will carry you out in a body bag.'

Rosman

My name is Mohammad Rosman Shah Bin Kamaruzaman usually everyone calls me Rosman. I am 21 years old. I was born in Hospital Daerah Tapah, Perak Darul Ridzuan on 1 September 1989. I come from Sungkai In Perak, the one small town part of Malaysia. I continue my study In Universiti Kebangsaan Malaysia, i choose Culture and Art of Malays Studies as my course. I'am the elders from 4 siblings. I have a young brother and are two young sister . A small family.. all them stay at Felda Sungai Kelah area. My hobbies in a free time are reading, listening the music and writting, especially while I have a lot of ideas. If there is some one who asks me about a one problem, i can help them.
When graduate, I hope i can continue my study in historic course. After that, i will try to apply a job in Ministry of Information, Communication & Culture of malaysia because if it can accept me, maybe one day i can be diplomat and continue my postgraduate study with a scholarship. i hope my dream will come true. God Bless..

Supiah

My name is Supiah Che Ros usually everyone calls me Sue or MJ for merah jambu bcos i like PINK..^_^..i am 21 years old. I was born in Hospital Teluk Intan,Perak,16 june 1989. I come from Sungkai Perak, one city part of Malaysia..I continue my study in UKM, I choose culture and art as my course. I'am 12 from 14 siblings. I have a brother, a young sister and a young brother. a big family.. all them stay at area K.L. my hobbies are shoping, listening the music and traveling, especially vacation at the islands.. if there is some one who asks me to go there, i don't push this suggestion.When graduate, i hope i can continue my study in same course. After that, i will try to apply a job in Department of Foreign Affairs in malaysia because if it can accept me, maybe one day i can be diplomat and continue my PhD study with a scholarship. i hope my dream will come true. God Bless..
One think of important in UKM, I love all about UKM mostly really peacefull..and in UKM i have a lot of friends..some of them is Wan Naziela,Ct Dyana,Norhashimah Hassan and Mohd Rosmanshah..they are really close with me and always helping me when i am troubled. so, if i have finish my study and should go back to my home town, i will be sad and loose them.

Naziela

My name is Wan Naziela Binti Wan Abdullah. I am 21 years old. I was born on 28 september 1989 in the village of Kampung Duyong Besar, Kuala Terengganu. I have 6 sibling. My father is name Wan Abdullah Bin Wan Ibrahim and my mother is name is Rubiah binti Che Ali. My secondary school is Sek.Men.Keb Bukit Tunggal. About my curiculum in my school,i was active in playing netball. In my STPM result ,i got four prinsipals .After that I was offered by National University Malaysia to continue my studies in culture and art of Malays. My hobby is playing sms and reading books. My ambition is becoming to be a teacher and a want to lighten the burden that my family suffer. At National University Of Malaysia,I stay at Ungku Omar college. Life in campus is very different with life at home. Life in most needs patience in the aspect of psysical and mentality aspect you will lose in your life unless you with education.

Dayana

Assalamualaikum and hello to everyone,... my name is Siti Dayana Binti Husain, you all can call me Yana.. my birthday is 21th march 1989 and i am from Pasir Mas Kelantan. I am the last daughter from six siblings and i have two sister and three brother..now.. I'm studying at Nasional University Of Malaysia in course Malay Culture And Art.. I'm not a good person but if someone can accept me and be my friend i will never hurt them.. i am appreciate my friend...and i will be a best friend.. that me.. but if someone do something wrong behind me you will see what will i do.. huuhuu,. and one more.. i love my parent so much.. and what i do now only for them.. only for their happiness.. that all from me... just be a simple girl but nice... hehehe...

SOLUTION OF CHILD ABUSE

          There are a number of ways which I think can contribute in solving child abuse. For example, our legal structure can play an important role in solving this issue. However, as this issue is not under our control therefore, we can raise our voices. It is not necessary that parents of the children are responsible for bad habits in their children. Therefore, do not blame them and encourage them to restrain their children from bad habits.


           There are various programs and policies which have also contributed in child abuse. We should explore such programs and policies to work on them. Another thing which I think is the main reason for raising this issue is the media. This creates extremism in people as well. I suggest that we should stop believing on whatever the media says. Try to solve this issue at broader level and do not let it, as it is, by considering it a family problem. The best solution for the child abuse is to support such families which are facing these issues and show your sincere concern to them.

eFFect oF cHild Abuse

Psychological problems:

Fears, panic attacks, sleeping problems, nightmares, irritability, outbursts of anger and sudden shock reactions when being touched. Little confidence, and self-respect and respect for one's own body may change. Behavior that harms the body: addiction to alcohol and other substances, excessive work or sports, depression, self-destruction and prostitution.

Social problems:

Have little confidence in other people.

Fear of loss of control in relationships.

Sexual problem:

While making love problems often occur. The partner may be confused by a certain remark, touch or behavior that brings back memories of the abuse. Patients sometimes don't want to make love at all anymore or make love less. Sexual relation problems may occur, together whit pain while making love, not wanting to make love and problems in getting aroused. Problems with the orgasm and coming also occur.